Proverbs 28.7
“The one who keeps the law is a son with understanding, but a companion of gluttons shames his father.”
A respectful son or daughter is obedient. They understand the rules and standards established by their father, obey his will, and bring honor to their father and family.
A disrespectful son or daughter is not obedient. They reject their father’s rules, live in defiance of his will, and tarnish the reputation of their father and family. One of the ways they express their defiance is by associating with other defiant, self-indulgent people.
As Christ-followers, we are God’s covenant people. We are His children. The clear and consistent message of Proverbs (and the whole Bible) is to respect and obey the Lord’s will, thereby honoring Him and bringing glory to His name.
“Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are mine … bring my sons from afar and my daughters from the end of the earth, everyone who is called by my name, whom I created for my glory, whom I formed and made.” (Isaiah 43.1,6-7)
“Let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.” (Matthew 5.16)
The message of Proverbs is that we must honor the Lord in our relationships. Who we choose as companions is a reflection of our attitude toward our heavenly Father. Earlier in Proverbs we were given this warning: “Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm.” (Proverbs 13.20)
Those who choose the fellowship of fools will eventually find themselves in serious trouble, whereas those who “walk with the wise” will learn wisdom. It is a simple rule: You are the company you keep. Therefore, choose your friends carefully. Stay away from foolish people and stay close to wise people.
“Do not be deceived. Bad company corrupts good character” (1 Corinthians 15.33).
